God invites us all to be a part of the Kingdom of Heaven and His Kingdom on earth. We are welcome whatever our past, poor decisions, or present situation. We are invited, the imperfect and the floundering. We are invited as we are for who we are. God wants us all to fill the wedding feast of Heaven.
If one measures with the heart of God, there is no such thing as fair. Fairness is an entirely human concept. Overwhelming unconditional love is the only standard of God and God’s love.